Wonders Of The 20th Year

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Bits of the day(12/11)~ November 12, 2009

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I love both looks. Each being a contrast of each other. Bold & strong versus soft & demure (:

Song Hye Gyo’s looking better in all the Laneige adverts.

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It is funny how people think I don’t exercise just because I ain’t dark and lean. Yeah I don’t have an athletic’s body, but at least I got b**bs and a** =)

“If I am deprived of friendship & love, I’d rather have money then.”

(Opps! Wrong answer!)

“If I am deprived of friendship & love, I’d rather cease to exist.”

(Correct!)

It shows a lot when you are doing things with passion.

“Yeah, I like to cut people’s hair.”

Such a simple statement, but said by someone of the same age, who had to cross the borders to pursue his dream. I’m definitely sure it involved a lot of hardwork and perseverance. I wonder whether I’ve the courage to do the same if I were him.

(P.S. He’s cute too!)

 

Home~ November 9, 2009

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Visiting Grave Sites, Imagining Worlds

The killing of five British soldiers on Tuesday at a checkpoint in Helmand Province by one of the Afghan police officers they were training was a reminder of how lonely death is in a foreign place and how intractable this part of the world has been for outsiders passing through. In Kabul there is a British cemetery, which in truth has only a few visible British headstones these days and mostly is filled with Europeans, but it stands as a statement of how poorly the West has done in this part of the world.

The cemetery was founded in the 1870s as the resting place for British soldiers who died fighting the Afghans in the second Afghan War. More than 2,500 British died, but far fewer than the more than 16,000 who perished in the Afghan wars of 1839-1942. It is a dilapidated place and in this fall season, mostly brown and gray; a few withered blooms on the rich rose bushes are still pink and red although the petals have shriveled. There is a small grape arbor and some birch trees. It is a peaceful place.

An old man, who does not know his age, but reckons he is about 80, looks after the cemetery as he has for 30 years. He said the Taliban came to look at it when they were in power, but did not disturb the graves. There are no fresh flowers on any headstones, a reminder that everyone here was far from home, from mourners, from loved ones. It’s funny how much a grave can make you imagine a whole world.

The gravestone that struck me the most was for John Charles Elcoate, 24, and Margaret Mills, 21, “Both of Sheffield University. Shot near Shahjui, August 1971.” Shahjui is near the Kabul-Kandahar road in Zabol Province, a dangerous place now; a dangerous place in 2002, too, when I was robbed near there at dusk at gunpoint by bandits who then shot out my tires; a dangerous place in 1880, when there was a British-Afghan battle there. The inscription could have been the first line of a novel: Who were they? Why were they traveling there? Why were they killed? Were they anthropology students researching local tribes? Hippies? Trekkers taking their chances on a cross-country trip? I looked them up on the Internet but found no reference except by other journalists who, like me, had been struck by their gravestone.

A Canadian television journalist who was in the graveyard the same afternoon I was there was struck by something closer to her home. On the walls surrounding the cemetery are lists of the dead since 2001. Plaques for the fallen British; for Americans; a few for Germans and for Canadians.

The plaque for the Canadian dead with the country’s emblem, the maple leaf, etched in the middle, lists only those who had died through the end of 2006 as if Canadians soldiers had not died after that. The 30 Canadian troops killed in 2007, the 32 killed in 2008 and the 27 killed so far this year have no marker of their passing. She turned and said, “I called our embassy, it’s terrible; they haven’t added any names since 2006.” She wasn’t a journalist at that moment; she was a Canadian on foreign soil. We are most patriotic when we are far from home; the possibility of our own mortality, most present.

I looked fruitlessly for the old graves of British soldiers from the Afghan wars of the 1870s and 1880s, but they were gone — the stones worn away or buried under the earth.

From The New York Times, 6th November 2009.

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It isn’t about visiting graveyards that hooked me on to this article. What struck a chord with me is the issue of being away from home, possibly away from your family and closed friends.

When you visit a graveyard and find a tombstone of someone in relation to you by citizenship, that would probably leave you walking away with thoughts of curiosity that centres around the topic of “How did that fellow citizen pass on in this country- a foreign land miles from home? And why?” And then you’ll start ruminating about whether it was a good choice to be abroad, what’s going on in your motherland, with flashbacks of the good times that give the warm feeling of comfort in the place of cold loneliness.

On my 2nd day in Chiangmai, as much as I enjoyed all the delicacies, cheap finds and places of interests, I couldn’t help but miss my home a little (which lead me to declare it on my Facebook status). And I could vividly remember back in 2007, as I strolled down the busy, neon lighted streets of Tokyo, I felt quite “uncomfortable” – in the sense that I couldn’t relate much to what the city offered. During that time I was still illiterate in the Japanese language and culture, maybe that’s one reason why I got home sick in the homogeneous Japanese society.

I’ve heard numerous stories of local students abroad finding delight in gatherings with fellow local students where it allowed them to be themselves – be Singaporean, with all the “lahs & lors” in their conversations. The basis of commonality- evoking a sense of patriotism away from home (verbal defensiveness), strengthens that sense of belonging and even love for your home country. It’s an irony that when you are home, you often dream of greener pastures, but as you seek for the desired pastures, you find yourself dreaming of home.

It is often said that we are all global citizens in this whole world of undefined boundaries. But what’s the point of this global citizenship when deep in our hearts, home is where the heart is?

With all that said, I hope I won’t miss home overly for my fortnight’s getaway.

Especially when I should be home, during the season of giving.

 

For year’s end~ November 9, 2009

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JLPT 700 Vocabs, 50 Lessons – 3 weeks, extremely nervous!

Sentosa Hotel or KL trip, undecided & uncoordinated

B’day + Countdown Party from scratch, Venue How- superlatively urgent!

Biometric Passport + Swine Flu vaccination (may I NOT get the side-effects)

Working Nov Weekends (yeah, for moolah)

My Brother, My Friends~ Gatherings, Meetups, Dinners

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I need more Vitamin C + Zinc & morning jogs.

Thank goodness I’m not the unofficial person-in-charge for the alumni group.

I L.O.V.E. my books =)

 

~~~,Part 2 November 8, 2009

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The cards with one of the recipes: Chocolate Mi-cuit with Hazelnut & Vanilla Ice cream

Mi-cuit means “half-cooked” in French. Therefore, this dessert dish is basically molten chocolate with vanilla ice cream and hazelnut topping :) Sounds droolingly delectable?

I bought these cards (for a price of $16!) when I went to SSO’s concert at the Esplanade on Friday evening. The conductor was none other than SSO’s founder, Choo Huey- hence the 2-hour concert was titled “Choo Huey’s Return”. The 3 classical pieces played which embarrassingly to say, I’m familiar with none (despite 5 years of piano-training), weren’t that melodious (hahaha!). At least I didn’t fall asleep ok! Aside from soaking in the music played, I learnt the “protocols” of concert attending, such as the 10 minute early arrival, “clapping till your hands hurt” encore and the cute “bell-ring-ring” to inform the attendees that the interval will be ending etc.

It was a nice experience, with dessert at Prego Ristorante later on. I didn’t bring my camera, so no pictures!

Shall go back to Prego again (with camera this time round)! The Tiramisu (a whopping $15!) was the best I’ve ever tried as the light custard was not too rich, just appropriate for the spongecake layer.

Sweet sweets! ^-^

`Prego Ristorante is an authetic Italian restaurant at Fairmont Hotel.

 

~~~ November 8, 2009

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Sudden overwhelm of gatherings, maybe because the end of the year is approaching.

I can’t seem to keep up with so many things to plan & do :(

And the flu bug’s here again, damn!

Drowning already! The holidays seem so short.

Went back to my secondary school yesterday morning for a brief meeting. Honestly I didn’t quite intend to commit because it isn’t just school work that’s keeping me busy, and I don’t want to cram my life up with so many activities that will leave me with no breathing space. But after an hour of discussion, I realized how much it would mean to my juniors, for me to fork out just a bit of my (limited) free-time and together with my peers of years, contribute back to my institution – which no doubt is, my second home from 2001-2004. It shall be a good start :)

Bought a pack of 6 greeting cards from Singapore Symphony Ochestra. So what’s so special about these cards?

They contain a recipe in each card :)

 

And they say it’s… random~ November 6, 2009

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There’s no such thing called miracles.

Everything is purely coincidental. By fate or affinity, it is whether is it meant to be or not.

For the key question is: Through fate, can you have that coincidence? :)

Every corner in Kinokuniya means new knowledge. I had a wonderful time with my classmates maundering around in this book heaven. We picked books out of random to share our point of views. The books included those of philosophy (What is pain?), astrology (What’s your horoscope personality like?), fashion (Which hair suits you better?), the 2012 phenomenon (FYI, we flipped through books and it stated that 2012 is Not The End Of The World, but just a “tilting point”, a Change and not an End) and yada-yada…

Then came the “topic of the day”: hard or soft copy books? Certainly for me its the former (and I believe that’s quite true for most girls, if I generalize that most guys are IT geeks!). It is not that I’m not an IT person or that I’ve a library at home to store all my books, the issue here is: personal touch. Just like retail therapy, I still prefer brick and mortar shopping as opposed to getting my items over the Internet. Apparently “just a click away” doesn’t relate to me, much less getting my feed of knowledge through gadgets that undoubtly yes, saves space, but so what? There is no “feel” when scanning through articles online, i.e. scrolling up and down the webpage or reading using Kindle (Google this new fad!). And gradually, gone will be the days where we’ll find delight in receiving books with a personal message written on the inside of the front cover “Hope you’ll enjoy the book! Loves-XXX”. I guess I’m still an ardent supporter of opening, flipping and closing, rather than on-ing, scrolling and off-ing (:

Saving space? That’s just an excuse.

I laughed when I read this not because it tickled my funny bones but because it made So Much Sense.

Anyone can become angry- that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not easy.

Aristotle, The Nichomachean Ethics

Well my holidays are officially here, if I discount the fact that I’ve JLPT Level 3 to sit for on 6th December :(

I decided not to work for this term holidays (surprise!) because I would like to take a good break and catch up with enjoyment of life =) It has by far been rather, a not-so-smooth-sailing year with problems arising now and then. However, I’m thankful for: all the opportunities that I was given to reactify my mistakes, all my close friends who pop by messages “taking-care” of me, and all the fun times I had with many more of such to wait for :D

With 7 weeks left to 2010, I’d be:

1) Reading up (as you can see from my “Bookshelf” widget on the right).

2) Shopping (like which girl wouldn’t?).

3) Travelling with my friends in Nov & with my family in Dec.

4) Planning a party with my bestie (spilling the beans soon!).

5) Blogging (Haha! Thank you all for keeping this blog “alive”).

Toodles! ;)

 

For thought(s)~ November 1, 2009

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`We shouldn’t conform to social norms that bespeak the typical journey in life that we’re supposed to take.

But at times, we should stick to the good old classics… if not why would they be considered as classics – able to withstand the test of time to reach our era?

`A friend of mine pointed out this morning, on how sweet it would be if her future husband would give her surprises occasionally for her to rest & relax in this fast-paced, stress-to-the-brim society. An example of her surprise: Spa Vouchers.

My comment: Not for me. Because that’ll defeat the purpose of ”sweetness” in the effort made. Sweet, in my romance dictionary, means: doing things together, making effort to spend time together. Together, period.

`Undecided on which to pick: glam factor or traditional outlook. To be exact, Sterling Silver or Gold.

If not considering the price factor… I’d stick to the second. And because it ain’t just any present, value outshines aesthetics (:

 

Don’t Know~ November 1, 2009

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I don’t know, I don’t dare & I don’t want to.

“I hope it won’t happen again” 

It certainly did, again.

 

Cold. Clothes. October 30, 2009

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I love it.

The rainy season is here :)

Can’t wait for after-exams! It’s time to revamp my wardrobe. Woohoo!

(And the 2 weeks in semi-winter California will give me enough reason to buy more Fall clothes. Hee!)

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(Above: Mango Fall 2009- impressed!)

On a random note, I can’t wait to be a woman.

Pretty much tired of being “girly” :/

Hmmm…

 

~~~~ October 29, 2009

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This is my favourite print for the Lady Dior campaign :) Marion Cortillard looks her best in red.

{edit: opps! realize it isn’t considered as a pure black&white film, but I guess with the inclusion of the Eiffel tower scene in almost monochrome hue, there’s no escape for romanticism.}

 Waiting for Chapter 2!

P.S. Noir means “black” in French, it could also be the shorten form of Film Noir, which means “black novel”.

 

Exam Blues~ October 29, 2009

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When under examination stress…

1) Everyone starts breaking out(but not for me! Hehe) - I noticed this as I sat down in the exam hall. Familiar faces with bad complexion. Shocked me. Could it be because they were bare-faced, makeup free for today (thus revealing their true complexion!)?

2) Everyone starts texting each other ferociously the night before the paper.

“Eh you finish studying liao not ah?”

“A lot to read lei! Sianz.”

“Tomorrow die already. I feel damn sleepy now.”

“You picking topics or not ah? I think I not studying Chapter 2 & 3.”

“I think tonight confirm no need sleep liao. You study till where liao ah?”

“The (inserts name) finish studying already liao lei! Damn fast lor! Ok I very nervous now.”

Haha it’s so funny (:

 

Success? October 27, 2009

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Now I understand why people often say “things get complicated when money and power are involved”.

I just perused an interview of Tamara Mellon, the driven and astute CEO behind the success of Jimmy Choo.

For those who ain’t very familiar with this brand, Jimmy Choo (the person) is the original founder of the shoe-brand. It was only after Tamara Mellon, daughter of Vidal Sassoon founder, discovered the business potential of this little known brand a decade ago, that then lead to the world-wide expansion of this shoe brand – a favourite among many of the high profilers (including Michelle Obama).

However, behind this success story lies tales of dirty linen that, clouds the glitz and glamour that surrounds the accomplished whom most of us might think highly of. Surely, it is never a pristine and straight road to success. But what if it meant tarnishing blood ties and putting career rigidly as your first priority? It is difficult to make choices, weighing the scales and ultimately choosing which to sacrifice. Furthermore when at times, you look back and realize you can’t seem to “justify” the choice you made.

I guess it’s all about personal choices, marching to a different drummer.

And after reading through this 2 page article, I think now my definition of success has expanded, to include the word sacrifice - tough sacrifice, to be exact.

[Note: I didn't state any of those "dirty linen" because I feel it's not necessary to.]

 

The States~ October 25, 2009

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Just want to share an article with you guys (might be boring stuff to some):

WASHINGTON (AFP) – – The US economy is poised to show growth in the third quarter, rebounding from its worst slump in decades, but whether the recession is over is a more complex question.

The first official estimate due Thursday on gross domestic product (GDP), or output of goods and services, is expected to show expansion of between 3.0 and 4.0 percent in the July-September period after four negative quarters in a row.

Yet the economy may linger for months in a “no-man’s land” in which GDP is expanding but no one is sure if the recession is “officially” ended, because of the way business cycles are defined in the United States.

For decades, the US government and economic community have recognized a panel of academicians with the private National Bureau of Economic Research as the official arbiter of business cycles.

The NBER panel does not use the definition employed in many countries of recession as two consecutive quarters of declining GDP.

NBER says a recession is “a significant decline in economic activity spread across the economy, lasting more than a few months, normally visible in real GDP, real income, employment, industrial production, and wholesale-retail sales.”

Moreover, the NBER generally waits months before its pronouncement, leaving the question of recession or not in limbo.

Complicating the issue is the sharp rise in unemployment, which has hit a 26-year high of 9.8 percent, making it still feel like recession for many.

“The average American doesn’t think you have recovery until the unemployment rate comes down, and it won’t come down until you have a sustained rate of 3.0 percent,” says Cary Leahey, senior economist at Decision Economics, a research firm.

“This is not really a meaningful recovery.”

Leahey expects the economy to show growth of roughly 3.9 percent in the third quarter, but sees a slowdown to around 2.0 percent in the fourth quarter as the expansion stalls.

Moreover, analysts point out that much of the growth will be the result of businesses rebuilding inventories following sharp production cuts, and from government stimulus efforts that may not be sustained.

Nariman Behravesh, chief economist at the research and consulting firm IHS Global Insight, said he believes the recession ended in June or July and that NBER should provide at least a preliminary pronouncement of the fact.

“I’m sure the recession is over, the only question is the strength of the recovery,” he said.

“NBER could provide a preliminary reading, they could say, ‘This is our best estimate,’ instead of leaving everybody guessing.”

Behravesh said it may be as long as a year before NBER decides and that the state of uncertainty “is not helpful for businesses.”

Federal Reserve chairman Ben Bernanke said last month the recession is likely over “from a technical perspective” but that the economy will struggle due to difficult credit conditions and high unemployment.

“It’s still going to feel like a very weak economy for some time as many people will still find that their job security and their employment status is not what they wish it was,” the Fed chief said.

The NBER declared the current recession on December 1, 2008, a full year after the downturn began. That was made despite data showing modest growth in the fourth quarter of 2007 and second quarter of 2008.

NBER declared an end to the 2001 recession only in July 2003, even though revised data showed there were not two consecutive negative quarters for GDP.

Roger Farmer, chairman of the economics department at the University of California at Los Angeles, said he believes NBER will eventually declare the recession ended in May 2009.

But Farmer said many Americans still will be feeling economic pain and that the NBER should consider other factors such as long-term unemployment.

“I think the economy is fragile, and the recovery could easily fizzle out,” he said.

Even if the recession were declared over, “until the unemployment rate comes down, the US economy is going to be in trouble,” he said.

“Only when we start spending again, and confidence returns to the private economy will the recession be over.”

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Among the many reasons why I chose to visit the States (aside from the current exchange rate benefit) is because I want to see what American life is. I’ve always wondered what it is like to live in a world major power – a big country that has a melting pot of cultures with many people of diverse backgrounds studying, working and living together.

Yes, a fortnight is way too short to experience, to immerse into their culture and practices. I’d just take this as a nascent eye-opener :)

I hope I’d be able to visit their hypermarkets (Wal-Mart!) and neighbourhoods during my 4 days of free and easy. Not to forget, I feel very fortunate to be able to join my Dad’s friend’s family for their ski-vacation, and hopefully drop by Stanford University for a peek at this world-reknowned institute.

Can’t wait~Totally!

 

Routinely different~ October 22, 2009

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As expected, I love the end of a year most. Apart from the reason that my birthday falls in December, it is because of the joyous ambience that surrounds the closing of a year and the feeling of warmth in close-knit celebrations between family and friends, that actually enlivens me.

The holiday season, with its much anticipated shopping bargains, escapades and a chance for many of us to get a well deserved relaxation period, might seem like another round of “same-old” doings. Some might even repeat past year ideas and quite literally, let history repeat itself with similar happenings.

But really, does repetitive acts done till bland as vanilla affect our level of enjoyment?

For me, I give my honest opinion – it does :)

Familar friends would know me as one who loves both, thinking and actualizing of crazy, never-tried-before ideas. I guess it’s my personality: “Newness is Enjoyment”. Hence, I never quite find myself doing the same old boring old stuffs again and again. I crave for new activities and I believe we humans, by and large, no matter how outgoing we are or not, still do crave for freshness of activities once in a while (at least!).

For those who hold a different opinion, you might say that it isn’t what you do that matter, it is the company that you have and your attitude that’s essential. I agree with that too, especially the second-half. It is how willing we are that actually affects our level of enjoyment in the things that we plan to do. For example, we can go to the same restaurant for Christmas dinner annually, but are we actually willing to do that? Or are we not (i.e. we are rather willing to try out a new place instead)? And for those who find comfort in familiarity, then I guess this issue of newness doesn’t really matter to you.

In short, only you can decide whether you will enjoy the same cycle of events again- it’s all in your mind, the way you see it.

 

December~ October 20, 2009

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This is Yosemite National Park in Winter. Captures my breath away…

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2 more months :)

Shall be away for December~ Away!

You can visit http://yosemitepark.com for further information  (: