i know this sounds lame but.. wad would u do that person if u hate him/her?
should u..
1) simply ignore him/her
2) bitch about him/her to all ur frens and make sure they hate him/her too
3) confront him/her and quarrel bout the issues that caused the dislikeness
4) be a hypocrite – stil act like ‘frens’ when u see him/her
to me.. most of the time.. i’l do 1) or 2).. hehe it depends on how much i can’t stand that person.. if its juz due to simple a thing or two.. i’ll jus follow 1) and as time goes by.. everything will be at the back of my head.. if i seriously loathe dat person till i find him/her disgusting till the Max.. i’l start my bitching.. well u may call it back-stabbing.. to me.. its juz a declaration to my frens of why i hate the person.. i mean u can’t possibly contain your anger all the time ya?? and by voicing out ur angst.. u might feel better after dat =)
i wrote this issue becos for the first time.. i’m using 4).. yes.. this antagonism started since last yr.. a few months after i met her.. we were colleagues.. and o well.. she’s a 2 faced to start with.. u may say ‘2 face den dun care her la.. aiyo…..’.. we both know we are rivals by work and frens during ‘lunchtime-break’.. to me.. i dun wanna start this thing.. after all its juz a temp job.. and its better to stick as friends ya? having 1 more fren is better then having another enemy to ruin your day.. i dun have this prob wit my other colleagues.. jus this particular gurl makes me sick.. makes me see how the real world works.. makes me realize how bitchy a person can be..
recently.. i added a comment for my another ex-colleague and also fren (whom i noe during dat period of time too).. and she..dat toot.. did the same thing and wrote some shit lik ’i miss u!!!’.. how gross!! (and she hardly ever writes comments for us!! so its not a coincidence ok!) wad’s more.. last time she told us (we 3 were having lunch together) dat we look cunning.. wtf!? yes its a sales job.. u sell as much as possible to stay put in the job.. but o pls.. not every sales staff is cunning.. for G*D’s sake..
so wad happen in the end? i quit the job* (well i was asked to) becos i couldn’t stand job scope and the environment.. i dun like cheating pple and bluffing them dat there’s a job for u now so come down now to the agency.. lying to them so dat u can get more contacts and sales and ya.. prevent yourself from getting sacked.
and the bottom line is.. i’m confused now.. i seriously wanna tell her straight dat i really truly can’t stand her behaviour but i think by doing dat.. i’ll aggravate the situation.. n even exacerbate the tension.. hiax.. life’s full of shit at times..
wad would u do?
P.S. i know its not nice to hate pple.. to have hatred.. ok? 
*i was working as a recruitment consultant.. its quite a big agency btw.
