i’ve always felt dat its more privileged for one to be loved den for one to love another =)
*ok sounds selfish*
i feel v blessed to hav such a gd bf.. though we had a fair share of disagreements and separations (during the 1st yr of our r/s especially!).. nonetheless i think dat his unselfish and unconditional love for me is something dat can nv b replaced..
take the case of him scrimping and saving jus to ‘maintain’ this r/s.. no i dun force him to buy me branded gds nor take me to lavish dine-out areas.. its jus dat he doesnt get a lot per month.. it somehow saddens me to noe dat sometimes he hav to chew on bread or instant noodles for lunch at home in order to play for our meal ltr(erm.. ok we seldom go dutch)..
i admit i am the calculative type of gf.. however ever since i came to realize how privileged am i to hav such a sweet bf.. my ways hav changed..
i am now staying up waiting for him to reach home.. its 11:30PM now n i usually would have slept by now.. but i think i should reciprocate his unselfishness by waiting on and calling him when he reaches home (jus to check on him & chat a bit)..
while it is often said dat a r/s gets boring after a long while.. after the ‘honeymoon’ period is over.. i beg to differ.. it wil nv b blase if u dun take ur loved one for granted.. assume dat he/she wil do wadeva u anticipated.. y make ur r/s predictable? 
hav u thought of how things might change for the better if u take a closer step and show extra concern to him/her? instead of dreading things or finding faults? jus a simple thing lik looking forward to a meal(positivity).. giving a genuine smile.. do brighten up ur date
go on.. surprise ur other half by taking dat extra step.. 
its not ur loss.. its a gain for both of u!
