Wonders Of The 20th Year

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Bits of the day(12/11)~ November 12, 2009

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I love both looks. Each being a contrast of each other. Bold & strong versus soft & demure (:

Song Hye Gyo’s looking better in all the Laneige adverts.

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It is funny how people think I don’t exercise just because I ain’t dark and lean. Yeah I don’t have an athletic’s body, but at least I got b**bs and a** =)

“If I am deprived of friendship & love, I’d rather have money then.”

(Opps! Wrong answer!)

“If I am deprived of friendship & love, I’d rather cease to exist.”

(Correct!)

It shows a lot when you are doing things with passion.

“Yeah, I like to cut people’s hair.”

Such a simple statement, but said by someone of the same age, who had to cross the borders to pursue his dream. I’m definitely sure it involved a lot of hardwork and perseverance. I wonder whether I’ve the courage to do the same if I were him.

(P.S. He’s cute too!)

 

And they say it’s… random~ November 6, 2009

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There’s no such thing called miracles.

Everything is purely coincidental. By fate or affinity, it is whether is it meant to be or not.

For the key question is: Through fate, can you have that coincidence? :)

Every corner in Kinokuniya means new knowledge. I had a wonderful time with my classmates maundering around in this book heaven. We picked books out of random to share our point of views. The books included those of philosophy (What is pain?), astrology (What’s your horoscope personality like?), fashion (Which hair suits you better?), the 2012 phenomenon (FYI, we flipped through books and it stated that 2012 is Not The End Of The World, but just a “tilting point”, a Change and not an End) and yada-yada…

Then came the “topic of the day”: hard or soft copy books? Certainly for me its the former (and I believe that’s quite true for most girls, if I generalize that most guys are IT geeks!). It is not that I’m not an IT person or that I’ve a library at home to store all my books, the issue here is: personal touch. Just like retail therapy, I still prefer brick and mortar shopping as opposed to getting my items over the Internet. Apparently “just a click away” doesn’t relate to me, much less getting my feed of knowledge through gadgets that undoubtly yes, saves space, but so what? There is no “feel” when scanning through articles online, i.e. scrolling up and down the webpage or reading using Kindle (Google this new fad!). And gradually, gone will be the days where we’ll find delight in receiving books with a personal message written on the inside of the front cover “Hope you’ll enjoy the book! Loves-XXX”. I guess I’m still an ardent supporter of opening, flipping and closing, rather than on-ing, scrolling and off-ing (:

Saving space? That’s just an excuse.

I laughed when I read this not because it tickled my funny bones but because it made So Much Sense.

Anyone can become angry- that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not easy.

Aristotle, The Nichomachean Ethics

Well my holidays are officially here, if I discount the fact that I’ve JLPT Level 3 to sit for on 6th December :(

I decided not to work for this term holidays (surprise!) because I would like to take a good break and catch up with enjoyment of life =) It has by far been rather, a not-so-smooth-sailing year with problems arising now and then. However, I’m thankful for: all the opportunities that I was given to reactify my mistakes, all my close friends who pop by messages “taking-care” of me, and all the fun times I had with many more of such to wait for :D

With 7 weeks left to 2010, I’d be:

1) Reading up (as you can see from my “Bookshelf” widget on the right).

2) Shopping (like which girl wouldn’t?).

3) Travelling with my friends in Nov & with my family in Dec.

4) Planning a party with my bestie (spilling the beans soon!).

5) Blogging (Haha! Thank you all for keeping this blog “alive”).

Toodles! ;)

 

For thought(s)~ November 1, 2009

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`We shouldn’t conform to social norms that bespeak the typical journey in life that we’re supposed to take.

But at times, we should stick to the good old classics… if not why would they be considered as classics – able to withstand the test of time to reach our era?

`A friend of mine pointed out this morning, on how sweet it would be if her future husband would give her surprises occasionally for her to rest & relax in this fast-paced, stress-to-the-brim society. An example of her surprise: Spa Vouchers.

My comment: Not for me. Because that’ll defeat the purpose of ”sweetness” in the effort made. Sweet, in my romance dictionary, means: doing things together, making effort to spend time together. Together, period.

`Undecided on which to pick: glam factor or traditional outlook. To be exact, Sterling Silver or Gold.

If not considering the price factor… I’d stick to the second. And because it ain’t just any present, value outshines aesthetics (:

 

Cold. Clothes. October 30, 2009

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I love it.

The rainy season is here :)

Can’t wait for after-exams! It’s time to revamp my wardrobe. Woohoo!

(And the 2 weeks in semi-winter California will give me enough reason to buy more Fall clothes. Hee!)

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(Above: Mango Fall 2009- impressed!)

On a random note, I can’t wait to be a woman.

Pretty much tired of being “girly” :/

Hmmm…

 

Exam Blues~ October 29, 2009

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When under examination stress…

1) Everyone starts breaking out(but not for me! Hehe) - I noticed this as I sat down in the exam hall. Familiar faces with bad complexion. Shocked me. Could it be because they were bare-faced, makeup free for today (thus revealing their true complexion!)?

2) Everyone starts texting each other ferociously the night before the paper.

“Eh you finish studying liao not ah?”

“A lot to read lei! Sianz.”

“Tomorrow die already. I feel damn sleepy now.”

“You picking topics or not ah? I think I not studying Chapter 2 & 3.”

“I think tonight confirm no need sleep liao. You study till where liao ah?”

“The (inserts name) finish studying already liao lei! Damn fast lor! Ok I very nervous now.”

Haha it’s so funny (:

 

Success? October 27, 2009

Filed under: Random talkings` — Restrained Deliriums @ 9:57 pm

Now I understand why people often say “things get complicated when money and power are involved”.

I just perused an interview of Tamara Mellon, the driven and astute CEO behind the success of Jimmy Choo.

For those who ain’t very familiar with this brand, Jimmy Choo (the person) is the original founder of the shoe-brand. It was only after Tamara Mellon, daughter of Vidal Sassoon founder, discovered the business potential of this little known brand a decade ago, that then lead to the world-wide expansion of this shoe brand – a favourite among many of the high profilers (including Michelle Obama).

However, behind this success story lies tales of dirty linen that, clouds the glitz and glamour that surrounds the accomplished whom most of us might think highly of. Surely, it is never a pristine and straight road to success. But what if it meant tarnishing blood ties and putting career rigidly as your first priority? It is difficult to make choices, weighing the scales and ultimately choosing which to sacrifice. Furthermore when at times, you look back and realize you can’t seem to “justify” the choice you made.

I guess it’s all about personal choices, marching to a different drummer.

And after reading through this 2 page article, I think now my definition of success has expanded, to include the word sacrifice - tough sacrifice, to be exact.

[Note: I didn't state any of those "dirty linen" because I feel it's not necessary to.]

 

The States~ October 25, 2009

Filed under: Around the World`, Random talkings` — Restrained Deliriums @ 5:45 pm

Just want to share an article with you guys (might be boring stuff to some):

WASHINGTON (AFP) – – The US economy is poised to show growth in the third quarter, rebounding from its worst slump in decades, but whether the recession is over is a more complex question.

The first official estimate due Thursday on gross domestic product (GDP), or output of goods and services, is expected to show expansion of between 3.0 and 4.0 percent in the July-September period after four negative quarters in a row.

Yet the economy may linger for months in a “no-man’s land” in which GDP is expanding but no one is sure if the recession is “officially” ended, because of the way business cycles are defined in the United States.

For decades, the US government and economic community have recognized a panel of academicians with the private National Bureau of Economic Research as the official arbiter of business cycles.

The NBER panel does not use the definition employed in many countries of recession as two consecutive quarters of declining GDP.

NBER says a recession is “a significant decline in economic activity spread across the economy, lasting more than a few months, normally visible in real GDP, real income, employment, industrial production, and wholesale-retail sales.”

Moreover, the NBER generally waits months before its pronouncement, leaving the question of recession or not in limbo.

Complicating the issue is the sharp rise in unemployment, which has hit a 26-year high of 9.8 percent, making it still feel like recession for many.

“The average American doesn’t think you have recovery until the unemployment rate comes down, and it won’t come down until you have a sustained rate of 3.0 percent,” says Cary Leahey, senior economist at Decision Economics, a research firm.

“This is not really a meaningful recovery.”

Leahey expects the economy to show growth of roughly 3.9 percent in the third quarter, but sees a slowdown to around 2.0 percent in the fourth quarter as the expansion stalls.

Moreover, analysts point out that much of the growth will be the result of businesses rebuilding inventories following sharp production cuts, and from government stimulus efforts that may not be sustained.

Nariman Behravesh, chief economist at the research and consulting firm IHS Global Insight, said he believes the recession ended in June or July and that NBER should provide at least a preliminary pronouncement of the fact.

“I’m sure the recession is over, the only question is the strength of the recovery,” he said.

“NBER could provide a preliminary reading, they could say, ‘This is our best estimate,’ instead of leaving everybody guessing.”

Behravesh said it may be as long as a year before NBER decides and that the state of uncertainty “is not helpful for businesses.”

Federal Reserve chairman Ben Bernanke said last month the recession is likely over “from a technical perspective” but that the economy will struggle due to difficult credit conditions and high unemployment.

“It’s still going to feel like a very weak economy for some time as many people will still find that their job security and their employment status is not what they wish it was,” the Fed chief said.

The NBER declared the current recession on December 1, 2008, a full year after the downturn began. That was made despite data showing modest growth in the fourth quarter of 2007 and second quarter of 2008.

NBER declared an end to the 2001 recession only in July 2003, even though revised data showed there were not two consecutive negative quarters for GDP.

Roger Farmer, chairman of the economics department at the University of California at Los Angeles, said he believes NBER will eventually declare the recession ended in May 2009.

But Farmer said many Americans still will be feeling economic pain and that the NBER should consider other factors such as long-term unemployment.

“I think the economy is fragile, and the recovery could easily fizzle out,” he said.

Even if the recession were declared over, “until the unemployment rate comes down, the US economy is going to be in trouble,” he said.

“Only when we start spending again, and confidence returns to the private economy will the recession be over.”

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Among the many reasons why I chose to visit the States (aside from the current exchange rate benefit) is because I want to see what American life is. I’ve always wondered what it is like to live in a world major power – a big country that has a melting pot of cultures with many people of diverse backgrounds studying, working and living together.

Yes, a fortnight is way too short to experience, to immerse into their culture and practices. I’d just take this as a nascent eye-opener :)

I hope I’d be able to visit their hypermarkets (Wal-Mart!) and neighbourhoods during my 4 days of free and easy. Not to forget, I feel very fortunate to be able to join my Dad’s friend’s family for their ski-vacation, and hopefully drop by Stanford University for a peek at this world-reknowned institute.

Can’t wait~Totally!

 

Routinely different~ October 22, 2009

Filed under: Random talkings` — Restrained Deliriums @ 11:19 am

As expected, I love the end of a year most. Apart from the reason that my birthday falls in December, it is because of the joyous ambience that surrounds the closing of a year and the feeling of warmth in close-knit celebrations between family and friends, that actually enlivens me.

The holiday season, with its much anticipated shopping bargains, escapades and a chance for many of us to get a well deserved relaxation period, might seem like another round of “same-old” doings. Some might even repeat past year ideas and quite literally, let history repeat itself with similar happenings.

But really, does repetitive acts done till bland as vanilla affect our level of enjoyment?

For me, I give my honest opinion – it does :)

Familar friends would know me as one who loves both, thinking and actualizing of crazy, never-tried-before ideas. I guess it’s my personality: “Newness is Enjoyment”. Hence, I never quite find myself doing the same old boring old stuffs again and again. I crave for new activities and I believe we humans, by and large, no matter how outgoing we are or not, still do crave for freshness of activities once in a while (at least!).

For those who hold a different opinion, you might say that it isn’t what you do that matter, it is the company that you have and your attitude that’s essential. I agree with that too, especially the second-half. It is how willing we are that actually affects our level of enjoyment in the things that we plan to do. For example, we can go to the same restaurant for Christmas dinner annually, but are we actually willing to do that? Or are we not (i.e. we are rather willing to try out a new place instead)? And for those who find comfort in familiarity, then I guess this issue of newness doesn’t really matter to you.

In short, only you can decide whether you will enjoy the same cycle of events again- it’s all in your mind, the way you see it.

 

For money’s sake~ October 19, 2009

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A topic that has been popular amongst some of my female friends lately:

Marrying a wealthy man. 嫁进豪门。

For a typical female, who wouldn’t silently want to wed a man of high status with considerable amount of wealth and assets? Our desire for material wealth shows :)

My friend questioned me “Wouldn’t you want to marry a rich man and enjoy life? Don’t need to work, you know!!”

I simply replied “Yes, it would be ideal to marry someone who is successful, capable, rich enough to shower me with surprise gifts occasionally and we can travel around without financial restrictions. But then again, I think I wouldn’t really enjoy it in the long run.”

“Because that’s not me. I don’t want to live off somebody else. I want to do something in my life. I don’t intend to be an alpha-female, dominating over the other gender (haha!) or some big-shot CEO. What I’m looking for is at least some financial backing of my own, something that is mine. Achieved using my hardwork and capabilities.”

Furthermore, I feel that when you earn something using your own time and skills, you’d appreciate whatever you have even better :) Because then you’ll realize whatever you have, it doesn’t come by easy (even a trip to USA needs a hefty amount of at least $4000 each), so that will push you to work even harder to enjoy life.

Apparently for me, “stay home, sit back and shake leg” isn’t my definition of socialite life.

And I’m sure my future other-half will appreciate me even more :)

 

Ziyi~ October 19, 2009

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The royal purple dress is so pretty :) So is the wearer. Haha, none other than the 30 year old Zhang Ziyi. 30? She looks more like a blushing 22 year old in this picture (:

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The bubble-skirt dress is from Louis Vuitton Winter/Fall 2009.

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And I like this advertorial pic too :) From Omega watches. I like the bluish-purple colour tone lah. Haha.

 

Johnson’s~ October 17, 2009

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No more tears! The signature tagline of their classic baby shampoo, their unique selling proposition too :)  I’ve used this when I was an infant till Lower Secondary? Haha. I was doing some window shopping with a friend yesterday and we came across Johnson & Johnson’s range of baby products at a drugstore, thus this got us talking about the brand. When I first saw the “yellow-bottled” shampoo, I couldn’t help exclaiming “still got the orange one! I remember!”. :D Being a loyal user still (I’m using their body wash still, hehehe), this is one brand that relates to me (or us!). When I say relate, I meant that the brandname is able to evoke memories of your childhood days, though it could be just vague memories of which type of shampoo (yellow or orange?) you had used, it’s the fun bit of reminiscing those “kiddy days” together with friends, that gives the “fulfillment”. And guess what? If not for the stockup supply I have now, I would have bought a bottle of the shampoo yesterday. Hehe!

An old print advert that I chanced upon while Googling. Notice the change in bottle design? Only the tagline remained the same :)

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And being a vainpot, I suddenly had this thought of replacing my current body lotion with baby oil :) Not that I’ve a thing for grease, I just realized that something as cheap as this could be one good body moisturizer for adults too (by locking up all the moisture in your skin after shower). Gotta try this! That is after I finish my 3 bottles of body lotion that I have now >.<

FYI: Johnson & Johnson is most well known for their vanilla scented powder (:

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Always there~ October 13, 2009

Filed under: Random talkings` — Restrained Deliriums @ 11:42 pm

For the past 1 hour, I was reading through my blog.

My own blog of almost 2 years.

Some articles made me laugh (looking back at the little things I rant about), some articles made me thought of my ex-Bf of 3 years, some articles made me realize how emotional and “full of thoughts” I can be…

Since I don’t usually keep much of my opinions to myself, my blog grows with me. Whether in happiness or sorrows, my blog is always there to silently listen to my innermost feelings. As I’ve once mentioned before, writing is therapeutic for me – it is an avenue for me to let go off the unhappiness, and a platform for me to share the bits of joy.

I once thought to myself, what would exactly be one meaningful 21st birthday gift from friends?

It would be to receive a hardcopy of all my blog articles, all binded up into a book.

Because it shows that you know I’m the sort who would occasionally relish a bite of nostalgia.

Because it shows that you know how important blogging is to me (or rather, writing away in my wonderland).

Because it shows that you know me, and what’s for me.

My blog – Loves.

 

Go Slow~ October 11, 2009

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Slowly.

This is probably my favourite word for this semester.

And without guessing, it also means a lot to me.

As a person without abundant patience, gets tensed up over bugging deadlines to meet, and can’t think straight when pressure mounts up, just a simple yet significant word helps me get through these “difficult times”. Maybe, my strive for perfection has shown its negative implications :(

I dislike piles of workload waiting for completion (who does?). Though I can’t say I hate what I’m doing (no I don’t, I grew to enjoy and then, like some of them), I just believe in doing things in my “own time, own schedule”. But then, such a request is not possible all the time, especially when others are involved, or when you get cases like “you don’t wanna miss the boat if not you’ve got to wait long for the next opportunity”.

Whatever it is, it is a good habit to take a step back and review the progress of my work. Attempting to finish it all as soon as possible isn’t going to help much. Go slow.

Rushing.

 

~ October 9, 2009

Filed under: Random talkings` — Restrained Deliriums @ 10:40 pm

I believe you can do it :) I have confidence and faith in you. And I’ll always be there to rally for you, even when there’s a need for sacrifice, cause you are my Brother =)

 

2 sides~ October 8, 2009

Filed under: Random talkings` — Restrained Deliriums @ 11:38 pm

I dislike doing things for the sake of doing.

I feel that without the passion and drive, it’s akin to not having the impetus to perform the deed. What’s left is only dread.

But then again, we do not need a solid reason/logic behind every single thing we do in life or every single interest we pursue now and then, that would make life really dull – lose the mysticality of it. Sometimes we engage in mindless and impulsive pursuits, only to question ourselves days later “What on Earth was I doing?” “That thing we did was so lame!”. And what’s the best thing? We applaud ourselves for whatever we did and look forward for more of such nonsensicalness :)

That’s life (at least for me), to have random happenings that occur for no entire reason, and on the flip side, to have some purpose-filled things to be done with utmost seriousness.

It is called striking a good balance :)